Saturday, December 3, 2011

Being In a Relationship is hard at times.

Sometimes, there will be times where you feel like you want to start sailing solo again. But somehow, you don't want to hurt the one that you love, you care so much. Sometimes when you wanna be yourself, there will be someone (at times) will try to control your life. Trust me, I've had that feelings before. It's a bit stressful, really. Especially when you are a person who keeps on thinking about how your future gonna be. It would be harder if you are a kind of person who's a bit laid back and prioritize your solo life (careers and such) and also if you are having a heavy crush on someone else. Stressful, init? Tell me about it.

There's a friend of mine who are having a hard situation I would say. Where A is in love with B. But B is in a relationship with C. The issue is that B doesn't want to give up on both. Anyhow, B has to stop being greedy and hurt both feelings. Though B tried so hard to stop with either one, it's hard ; that's what B told me recently. I've this kind of issue long time ago. And it was not that easy to settle it. Being in a relationship is hard, I would say.

Even me myself, sometimes have issues with myself. I would never ever blame people around me. But never I expect or this kind of situation would hit my own friend. Being in a relationship really trigger your heart but at the same time hurting your own feelings. Questions are always there, but to find a good relevant, acceptable answers are hard. Damn hard.

Sometimes, I personally feel that I don't have anymore privacy. People will start talking if I do this and that. Okay, back to my friend's story. B is kinda important issue now. I know I should not think about it, but reality check we are human. We have feelings. What if we love someone else when we are in a relationship? What if I have a heavy crush but at the same time I don't want a break up with my current boyfriend? God, this could be very stressful mannn. Cupid's Chokehold-Gym Class Heroes is a good song to listen to now.


Why is it so hard to find the answers? Can just anyone tell me why?